Yesterday I was talking to my friend about sex. When I was younger I never talked about sex, It was NOT in my vocabulary. When people would talk about it, I would just brush it off and chuckle because honestly I had no idea what they were talking about. Now that I know what they are talking about, I have realized I jump at a conversation that consists of sex. Everyone has their opinion about sex. I don’t think I’d call it a controversial issue because everyone has sex, no matter what their opinion is on it.But there is deffinatly a mix basket of opinions on the topic.
I was researching online after my talk with my friend because I wanted to see other peoples opinions on sex. My friends opinion is ridiculous but that’s my opinion. He thinks sex is something you must do to survive. Like a vampire sucking blood out of a human ( True Blood reference). But he is a guy and many guys and some girls think like that, but I am not one of them. During my research I found out that #1 little girls are experiencing sex, like girls who are 13,14 years old. Then they go online and panicking because they aren’t sure if they are pregnant. If you don’t know your body than you shouldn’t be experimenting with it. #2Many people are against sex to begin with. They will say “You can get pregnant anywhere ( which is true) and than your life is over so don’t even bother having sex.” If a young girl read that on the internet, it would scare the shit out of them. I also realized that so many people are trying to have kids and can’t and I feel so bad for them. There are so many young people who are getting pregnant and having abortions and some people who want children can’t even have them. I think god works in mysterious ways and sometimes I question what he does. Why won’t he give the people who want children and opportunity to get pregnant and not the people in broken homes or people who really aren’t ready?
I believe that if you are to have sex, you should be prepared to make big decisions. After making the decision to actually have sex then you are mature enough to make decisions if god forbid you get pregnant.Everyone should have a choice to what they want to do, but they should expect the consequences of their decisions. I don’t think there is a good decision when you are pregnant and you don’t want to be. Either way, your life is going to change.
Now that I am getting older, some of my friends are getting pregnant or already have children. I am almost 20 years old. I don’t know what I would do if I was put in that situation. I guess you don’t know until the time comes.